Happy birthday to ME 🧚🏾‍♀️✨️

Today, I’m blowing out the candles with a heart that feels lighter than it has in years.

As I celebrate another birthday, I’ve been reflecting on the journey that brought me to this specific moment.

GRIEF

Over the last two years, I’ve undergone a quiet and powerful transformation. For a long time, I took pride in being the person who was always there for everyone else—the "giver," the "fixer," the shoulder to cry on. But I realized I neglected my own needs and feelings in doing so.

I’ve finally learned to be as kind, patient, and giving to myself as I am to others. I’ve stopped apologizing for needing rest and started treating my own heart with the same tenderness I offer my friends.

Part of that self-kindness meant learning a lesson that used to terrify me: setting and honoring boundaries. I used to think boundaries were walls that kept people out, but I’ve realized they are actually gates that keep me safe. Learning to say "no" without guilt has been one of the most difficult yet empowering shifts of my life. By honoring my limits, I’ve created space for the things that actually matter. Like love and peace.

More than anything, I’ve become free to live a life defined by joy and discovery. Whether it’s exploring new places, hanging out with friends and having fun, or simply enjoying quiet time alone, I have figured out that work-life balance put WORK first, which is counterproductive in and of itself. I’m approaching my LIFE with the freedom of a child who has curious eyes and an open heart.

So, here’s to another year. Not just of growing older, but of growing deeper into the person I was always meant to be. I’m so thankful to be here, and I can’t wait to see what this next chapter holds 🤞🏾