I’m a Diva

For a long time, I shied away from the label of being a diva. But lately, I've been doing some serious soul-searching (while sipping a perfectly chilled beverage, of course), and I've come to a realization: that being a diva is a powerful, positive way to embracing my inner self.

My version of being a diva is about knowing my worth, setting high standards, and unapologetically pursuing excellence in everything I do.

Here’s what being a diva looks like on me:

Knowing My Worth: It means understanding my value and not settling for less than I deserve, whether it's in my career, my relationships, or even my daily routines. If I know I can bring something amazing to the table, I'm not afraid to ask for what's fair.

Setting High Standards: I believe in quality. I AM, in fact a Quality Engineer. I believe in putting my best foot forward and I expect the same level of dedication and effort from those around me. It’s about striving for excellence and not being afraid to push for it. It’s about setting the expectation and goals and working on a plan to achieve them.

Prioritizing Self-Care: I know how to shine brightly, but I also understand that my body must be well-nourished and rested. That means taking the time for myself. And not feeling selfish or guilty for doing so. I have learned that self care is essential for my well-being.

Owning My Power: There's a certain confidence that comes with embracing my inner diva. It's about owning my strengths, acknowledging and improving on my weaknesses, and not being afraid to take center stage when necessary.

I am self-aware and always try to ensure that my "diva-like" tendencies come from a place of love, self-respect, and a pursuit of a peaceful quality of life. My diva attitude does not come from entitlement or a desire to belittle others. It is pure love of self and others.

The next time someone playfully calls you a diva, maybe don't shy away from it like I used to. Perhaps it's an acknowledgment of your strength, your standards, and your refusal to settle for mediocrity. Embrace your inner fabulousness, own your crown, and remember that every queen (or king!) deserves to be treated with respect.

Love ya Tameka